For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love and self-discipline - 2 Timothy 1:7

Tuesday, August 27, 2019

~ What is YOUR Why? ~


Many people wake up each morning with their own unique reasons. These motivating factors compel them to wake with gratitude, desire and live with purpose or they stop them from having hope. It is all in their mind and heart. What is your why? What motivates you to get out of the bed each morning? What matters most to you?

I can tell you that I get up each day because I know the Lord is counting on me to be his hands and feet in this world. I know I am called for bigger things and they do not involve how I feel. I know I am purpose filled. My why is to serve the Lord first and foremost through loving people, growing, teaching and being an example of Christ. I want to be a supportive wife and mommy and cut people grace while showing them the Love of God. If I had to sum my why up in three words it would be: God, Family and People.

Most days I forget my why or I have no motivation for this “why”. I don’ feel qualified, I feel vulnerable or simply just not motivated. If I counted on my feelings, I would not accomplish much or just would maybe sit in laziness. God gave me others to care for so I see that as a major blessing to get up daily. I did not have the greatest earthly examples growing up and I surely was not shown how to preserve. God showed me what it meant to live out my “why”. Will you let him show you?

If you are unsure about your why, let’s go to the word of God:

1         Your purpose for living is to bring glory to God:

“Bring all who claim me as their God, for I have made them for my glory. It was I who created them” – Isaiah 43:7
“So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him” – 2 Corinthians 5:9

2       To conform into the image of Christ

“For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps” – 1 Peter 2:21
“Be imitators of me, as I am Christ” – 1 Corinthians 11:1

3    Serving God with your life

“Whatever you do, work heartily as you are working for the Lord” – Colossians 3:23

“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in him” – Ephesians 2:10



Friends, you were made with extreme purpose and each and every one of us in Christ have our own unique parts in the body of Christ. IF you are struggling to see clear, ask the Lord for his perspective. You cannot live in this dark world alone thinking you can succeed off sheer determination and worldly affirmations. I tried for years to run my own life thinking I would be full of joy. If you feel you lack purpose that can very well be the Lord tugging at your spirit. He made you and he knows your inner most thoughts and workings. The void you feel is only meant to be filled by HIM and him only. Your job won’t fulfill you. Your husband and kids won’t give you extreme happiness every day. The money in your bank account doesn’t last and the material things you have can burn up tomorrow. Nothing is permanent here on this earth.

When you spend time with God, surrender your ways, confess your sins and have a genuine desire to get to know him, he will lead and guide you. He will open doors, he will give you purpose and he specifically show you what he wants you to do on this earth. When the Lord shows you your purpose and you are filled with his spirit, you will obey.

Sis, I challenge you to partner with the Holy Spirit. Let the Lord give you his perspective on your life. Will it be instant? No, God is not a genie and the relationship you have with the Lord is a beautiful journey. He is patiently waiting to help you understand you’re true “why”. Fill your mind with things that are of the Lord and you will never want for more. You will soon find that God alone is enough.

In Christ,
Monique Smith

Prayer Starter:
Father God, I acknowledge that I am not my own. You made me and know everything about me and what I am specifically made to do here on earth. I give you my heart, mind and spirit. I give you my thoughts, mouth and ideas. I want to invite you as an active participant in my life. I do not want to wander around life any more. I want to be spirit filled and purpose led. Fill me with your HOLY fire, Jesus. I confess my sins and I believe you died for me on a cross and rose three days later. I thank you in advance for helping me and giving me a new life in you. I pray in Jesus name. Amen

Thursday, August 22, 2019

~ Give Yourself Away ~


Give YOURSELF away so The Lord can use you, friend. This life is not about you. Life can hurt and feel so confusing at times. I believe life feels so overwhelming when we place our circumstances in the palms of this world and not Christ.

What are you going through right now, sis? What is distracting you? What is stopping you in your tracks because you are in fear? Hone in on that thing and relinquish your reigns. Let it go and give it to Jesus. That thing, that person or that heart ache is not God’s plan for your life. His plan is for you to have hope and prosper in HIM (Jer 29:11). Today, I encourage you to not camp out in your circumstance. Give yourself and that circumstance away to the Lord so he can use you. He wants a willing heart.

There is some one out there that does not know the faithfulness of our Father. Someone needs your smile, your encouragement and your ear. Be that blessing to someone today. When we fixate our mind to things that are of the Lord, a miracle happens. A true break through!




There are some true trying things that are happening in our family right now. It is scary. It hurts and to be honest I am scared as I do not know the outcome. But GOD!! One thing I am truly learning is to relinquish my plans and pray for the Lord to help me serve someone. This serving is not always monetary but if that is what I know the Lord is placing on my heart and it aligns with his word, I will do it. When I focus my heart and mind on Jesus, my fear subsides. My problem seems smaller and God seems bigger. I have confidence that the Lord will work all things out for my good and my family. God stands by HIS word. So, join me in being a vessel for the Lord!

Go out today, sis! Have faith. Be a blessing in this dark world. Do not shrink back in hard circumstances as they are to build you. Put on ALL the armor of the Lord and fight back in the Spirit. Do not wait for someone to stir you up. You get in there and tag team with the Lord and have a praise session. Don’t be afraid because Jesus loves you!

You can stand your ground with the Lord on your side. Get ready for the Lord to bless you and your loved ones. Stay encouraged!

In Christ,
Monique Smith


Prayer Starter:
Take my heart, Lord. Take my life, my circumstance and use me as a living sacrifice. Lord, my plans are useless I really spend too much time in worry. I place my plans in your hands. Prepare my heart and mind for whatever comes. I want to be ready. Help me serve you and others with a positive yet grateful attitude. May I stay aligned with your spirit. Show me how to do things your way. Help me to stop making mistakes over and over again. I open up my heart and mind to you. Guide me, Holy Spirit. By the blood of Jesus, Amen