~ NO More Anxiety ~

Anxiety, doubt, loneliness and frustration, what do all these have in common? How about peace, joy, hope and courage, what do these have in common? I can tell you that one leaves you feeling drained and in despair and the other leaves you feeling energized, ready and vigilant. Why, why do these different emotions have the tendency to make us “feel” a certain way? Well, I believe it is because one is of Jesus and one is of the enemy. Let me explain…….

God made us with a variety of different emotions so that we can channel them for good and to glorify his kingdom but our focus is off when we are in an emotion that is not of him. God is of peace and would never want his child in despair so feeling anxious with doubt and of loneliness is not him sisters. We have a situation in front of us and it makes us feel uncomfortable so we panic. We choose chaos instead of peace. We think that God needs our help so we call everyone we know and start to speak defeat. Or we sit in a corner and entertain a anxious heart and think “I am an anxious person, I always been this way”. We don’t use our words to focus on the positive or have any faith we start giving life to every emotion under the sun. We give into anxiety instead of peace.

I think that what we miss it all when we think about emotion and feelings and we get too caught up in them (preaching to myself here). We think because we “feel” a certain way that we have to “act” in a certain manner than we just rely on our flesh to respond and it just is a mess. We fail to look to Jesus in the whole scenario. We fail to see why we are “this way” in the first place. We take no accountability. We start to think “oh, I am like my parents”. We start giving ourselves titles and speaking things into existence based off of one single feeling. We forget who we are in Christ just like that. Why, sisters?

We are human, that is why and we will fall short daily BUT we can call upon the name of Jesus and trust him in that exact moment. We are of flesh in a dark world where the enemy is very present. We are messy and sin is in our lives, we are not perfect and never will. But we do have dominion we can hone in on and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. As believers, we daily take up our cross and strive to be better remembering that God is at the center of everything we do. When we purposely shift our thoughts, emotions and responses to life’s trials we see the beauty (Jesus) in the pain and can choose peace, joy and hope, not ourselves in a situation. We can do this supernatural thing because sin is removed from us (doubt, fear, confusing etc) and God is now welcomed to be God.  

It is very possible that we can feel one way and listen to our spirit inside of us to do right despite our “emotion”. We will suffer and there is no way around that but we can choose different in our crazy emotions. What we need to understand is that through the hardship we face God is already working behind the scenes to bring forth something good in and through us but we cannot lose hope. We cannot lose our peace. We cannot lose our joy. We cannot get tired of thinking well and responding with faith or we block Jesus from working. We need to stand steadfast and trust God through it and talk back to our emotion and say “I will not stress, God is in control”, “I am not lonely, Jesus loves me”, “I will nor fear, that is not of the Lord", “I will not be anxious, God has me in the palm of his hand”. When you start to speak victory and faith situations change and we do as well. This takes practice.

 Remember like the word of God says in 1 Peter 5:8, "the enemy, the devil prowls around like a lion looking for someone to devour". Sisters, he is ready to pounce on you. The enemy thinks he is smart when in actuality he really is not. We give him to much glory. The enemy forgets that we have authority over his tactics. But if we handle life with how we “feel” he will play and toy with our weak state and flesh. Soon we will work our self into a frenzy and loose our power over him. He will win in your thought life and you will respond not like the bold Christian you are. We cannot believe all the lies that he whispers in our ears and we can no longer give him glory with our emotions.

Sisters, we must be more than how we "feel". We can push pass emotions and choose to speak life, not death. We can respond with grace, not stubbornness. We can hope not be in despair with anxiety. We can sleep in total peace because God is with us and he will provide. We can love and serve instead of whining and complaining. Let’s grow. Let’s be more. Let’s not waver today. Let’s let peace, love, joy and courage be at the center of what we think, feel and do…..

In Christ,
Monique Smith

 Prayer Starter:

Thank you Father for this trial, I trust you. Thank you that you gave me a courageous spirit so that I can channel my emotions and thoughts in a healthy manner for your kingdom. Thank you for lovingly correcting me and giving me conviction in my heart. Thank you giving me freedom and helping me to walk in it. May I stand and be a light in this dark world by speaking victory even when I can't see it. Help me to push pass any emotions, thoughts or feelings that are not of you. I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. Amen  

~ A New Commitment ~

Often times we wonder why life is headed in a certain direction and we never stop to question ourselves why. We stumble and fall, which is normal, as we are not perfect but we do not learn from our mistakes. We keep doing the same and wanting different results. We say we are believers and say we love the Lord but want to fill our minds with filth. We want life to go smoothly every day and if it does not we throw a fit. Life with the Lord does not work in this fashion; I am here to burst your bubble. Whoever told you that life would be peachy each day lied. You cannot keep doing life the way you want to and expect favor.  We keep sinning and wonder why life is so bad for us. : /

I remember when I asked Christ into my heart at a young age I thought that I would be given special treatment, like I was exempt from pain. Life was so hard after I made the decision to live for the Lord, so I thought. I will tell you now that I look back in retrospect it was not hard, I made it hard. I wanted to praise Jesus Sunday and drink all throughout the week. I wanted to listen to R.Kelly talking about “sex me” and shout to the Lord that I love him Sunday. I wanted to do me and be spirit filled at the same time. When I did not see favor I was like “Jesus, what happened”.  I did not know how to put my flesh in order so I gave in to it EVERY second. God knew my heart and he knew I needed a revelation but he needed me to see that I needed him. Until that happened, I went around the same mountains over and over and over again.

Sisters, it is time to renew your commitment to the Lord. Whether you do not know Jesus at all or you do and are hiding, it is time for you and the Lord to be in right standing again. Time to take the shackles off your feet and truly dance!!!!!!

You want blessing, but your mouth is garbage. You want favor, but you won’t forgive who has hurt you. You want peace, but you want to be God. You want a Godly marriage, but are waiting on your husband to change and will not even respect him. You want purpose for your life, but refuse to even pick up the word of God to find out what God wants you to do. If you find it hard to read this, then it is because you are comfortable doing life your way. I know I could not read or listen to anything spiritual when I was so comfy in my cute little sin. I had an ugly attitude towards positive spirit filled people. Why? Because that was the stronghold Satan had on me.

Listen, you are a child of God and you were bought with a hefty price. Who you were before Christ is no longer, that person died and you are now a new creation. I come from a loving place to say, you cannot expect victory in your life and you still want to live how you want to. As a follower of Christ, you will be uncomfortable and you will daily have to die to yourself but living a righteous life is oh so worth it. I am not saying to have all these list of rules, that is religion. I ask saying to invest in your relationship with Christ and live a life pleasing to him. It is time!!!! It is time to go deeper with Jesus and commit to a life of excellence with him by your side, he is waiting for you. Jesus has so much he wants to teach you and show you but living how you want to will block it all. Same goes for what you think, say, read etc. It is time to kick your flesh to the curb and make a decision today to completely live for the Lord.  

My wrong thinking and negative words were holding me back from who I was to be, please do not let that happen to you. God will let us do our own thing because the life we have is choice driven. He is a gentleman and he will never push himself on us. But we have to seek him with all your hearts and pursue him because we no longer want to live life "our way". It is a choice. What will you choose?

Today I encourage you to ask yourself some hard questions even if those answers hurt and sting, write them out. Be truthful with yourself and take them to the Lord. Take a look at the answers and do something today to change it. If it is your lifestyle, repent now and get right with the Lord. If it is your thinking, renew your mind in his word and purposely seek what God says in his word. If it is your mouth, ask God to help you to hush and find all sermons and scripture you can on the tongue…If it is a person? give them to the Lord and work on you. You cannot control others and their actions. You are responsible for the development of your own soul so stop worrying about other people.  

It is my prayer that your soul is so convicted that you stop now and make your life right with Jesus. Give it all to him sis. He is the way, truth and the light. He will tag team with you and help you to live the life that he so willingly died for you to have.  

In Christ,

Monique Smith

 Prayer Starter:

Jesus, I no longer want to live my life the way I have been. I am tired, bruised and broken. I want you to please take control of me and change me. I am nothing without you and I want your presence in my life over anything else, Father. Please forgive me for all my sins and wash me clean. All strongholds that are not of you must flee now in the name of Jesus’. Today starts my new life with you. Amen

~ Are you Willing? ~

What do you do when someone just hurt you so bad and you just cannot trust them no matter how much you try? You have tremendous pain in your heart because of the reckless decisions they are making.

Well,sis…first I pray that you stand with boldness and with authority because even when you cannot see hope or any light, you are a child of the most high God. He is always there to comfort and to provide for you.

But you ask what do you do? You let go….you let go of trying to control the situation. You truly, with all your heart, give it all to the Lord. You surrender sis. God wants you to move out of his way so he can work his purpose for that loved one through you. When you choose to surrender that comes with discomfort. It feels so horrible but you are strong because of the Lord and you can push past those emotions. Remember the enemy wants you to feel all sorts of ugly emotions for that person so you cannot forgive and you can judge and be oh so critical to them.

There is much pain before a child is birthed right? You go through labor and contractions and discomfort and it hurts…BAD. But at the end you have a precious beautiful child that you can hold and see that you pain was not in vain.

Letting go and trusting God through this trying life storm will cause you to suffer A LOT BUT you will rejoice later my sister. I am, speaking from years of experience. The Lord makes mention of this in Psalm 30:11 (You turned my sorrow into joyful dancing). He will turn it. He is a turnaround God but he needs you to take your hand off of it. Not saying you need to rid that person out of your life. I am saying you let the Lord heal your heart work on you so that you can be used for that individual. They need to have a relationship with the gracious Father you serve. 

The Lord is the only one that can help you to heal, let go and forgive in that area. I do understand how it feels to have your life ripped into two because of a careless decision that a loved one made. No matter how hard we want to try and control the whole situation, we cannot and you must try and come to grips with that.

 It is my belief that God wants to build our faith through what seems like a heartless event that another caused. I believe there is greater purpose there. You may ask: why does the decision of one have to make me pay personally? Or is this not their issue Monique? Why did they bring me all up in the mix because they are a hot mess with life choices?

It is not our job to judge anyone’s sin even if it is your spouse, mother, child or whomever. You do have to trust and know that as a believer God is having you go through this for some reason. Our job, no matter what is to love and forgive and maybe love that person from a distance BUT not to give up on them. The whole situation is much bigger than little ol you. God is trying to save your loved one possibly. Their reckless and thoughtless decisions hurt you because of course you are the one closest to them. But did you ever question why are they making such heartless decisions, ones that try to ruin good people’s lives? Sis, they need the loving touch of Jesus in their heart. They do not know that they have a Father who loves and cares for them, one who wants to mend their broken soul so they don’t go about this world doing life on their own. Have you not been there before? Have you not made stupid decisions and wished someone was in your corner? No matter how big or small the sin is it is sin and God hates it. You can hate the sin BUT please do not hate the sinner. They need you. The only Jesus they will see, and you heard this time and time again, is YOU. You are the only Jesus they will see so yes you will have to sacrifice your comfort some so that maybe, just maybe they can get to know our King. Is it not worth it?

If you believe with all your heart that is Jesus is Lord. Than you will know that he has purpose in all that you go through. Absolutely no trial you go through will EVER be in vain. He wants to use you. Are you up for being used? Will you be obedient to the Lord and sacrifice your pain to carry another who is in much greater pain than you?

I pray in the name of Jesus, that you dig deep and find courage to let go and let God move in the heart of another BUT through you.

In Christ,

Monique Smith

Prayer Starter:

Oh Jesus, I am a mess right now. I feel so confused Father God. Please guide me and show me your ways because I do know they are greater than mine. My loved one is hurting and they need you and if that means that you need to use me, I say yes Jesus. Use me to let my loved one see your mercy, love and grace. Help me to be patient with them. Help me to remember how it was when I was in my sin and needed you. Thank you Father that you are working on our behalf. I declare victory on the other side of all this pain. Thank you that you can convict my heart in a way that brings forth much fruit. You will turn my mourning into dancing, I trust you. I love you Lord and I honor you with my responses to this individual. Amen 

~ Look Up ~

Today, I checked my mail and I received my Master’s degree. I stood back and looked at it and could not help but just look up and smile. God carried me when I simply could not. There were many times I wanted to give up and just throw in the towel with so much when I started this degree (marriage, work, and life). I knew God needed me to stay obedient because he had purpose. I fought, pressing through those emotions and he renewed my mind each second, each minute and gave me strength for the day.

God knew all along that I would sit alone in his presence today thanking him for a completed degree. He took this wretched little stubborn brat and saved her. I could go on and on about how he saved me but this post would be too long. I want to encourage you to look up to the Lord in faith when what is in front of you looks so dark. God has a plan and he has a purpose and if you would just press through those emotions there is victory.

Where God is taking me exactly I cannot say but I do know that I know that I know it is somewhere big and I am ready, willing and able. Do you know God wants to take you somewhere big as well? God wants you to trust that when you do look up to him he will meet you with favor and blessings. Jesus loves you and he needs you to see that every second of your life. God wants to carry you through tough terrain because he can see the light at the end of the entire chaos question is will you?

Ladies, look up to your Father who has his arms wide open just waiting for you to believe. Look up sis, you will find purpose.

In Christ,

Monique Smith

Prayer Starter:

Jesus, thank you for carrying us. We can stand against evil and say yes to you because you have given us power to do so. You give us strength and protect us day in and out and we are thankful. We are your children and we look up to you Father. Thank you for saving us. Thank you for loving us. Thank you for meeting us exactly where we are at. Amen

~ I am Unique with a Specific Purpose ~

I have been in HR for the past 8 plus years. I originally went into this field because I wanted to help employees see their potential within the organization. I have always had a servant’s heart but I just did not know it was that. I have a specific purpose from the Lord and I have been dragging my feet on it. Why? Because I am scared but God did not give me that power, the enemy did so switching my perspective is of the utmost importance. Learning to recognize God and the enemy is what I thank the Lord for today. May I share some things with you?

I have completed my Master’s degree in Christian Counseling last month and I have asked God over and over “what am I to do now”. You see I have been going back and forth with the desire to leave HR full-time and go into full-time ministry coaching women with A Risen You. I fear losing the income, how to start it all, if I should charge, just so much. 

Earlier this morning, I sat at Jesus’ feet and just loved on my father. I proceeded to go watch Joyce Meyer and she was preaching on “In God’s Timing”. I thought this is just great so I prayed that God would speak to my heart and of course he did because he is just so crazy faithful. Joyce said something that just spoke to me she said “the devil will try and tell you to stop trying to change the world, to settle down and be a regular woman”. I felt this was so for me because that is exactly what he has been trying to do. The enemy has being filling my head with doubt about my God given specific purpose and this message convicted my heart. I know that I am to go into ministry and coach, write, teach while empowering women in the Lord. But sometimes this sly slick snake will start to speaking and it goes downward IF I am not vigilant. 

Sisters, we are unique and God wants to use us in very specific ways. I cannot tell you those ways only he can. But I do know that we cannot go to where God wants to take us with the same old thinking, behaviors and responses to life. He wants us to help impact this world in the big and in the small ways but we need molding. We are his hands and feet on earth until he comes for us and we need to guard our hearts from the enemy. You are unique with a specific purpose and I say you ask the Lord to reveal this purpose to you.

Today, I encourage you to take some time and purposely sit still before the Lord and ask him to give you perspective about this purpose. I pray you are willing to wait for his response and trust him at his word. You are made to be more and you do have a God given purpose that Jesus wants you to live out. But God first needs to prep you and deal with some areas that you cannot take to the next level. I believe that God is stripping us into elevation. Let’s trust God without borders and studying his word because there we will find his will for us. Let’s go ladies, together we shall grow.

In Christ,

Monique Smith

Prayer Starter:

Holy Spirit, we thank you for your guidance. Jesus we thank you that you continue to reveal your word to us in a way that convicts our hearts. Teach us to live like you and walk as you did. We know that you have a specific purpose for us and that we are to help by being a light for you here on earth. Help us Father God, to live a life full of faith, purpose and excellence with trusting you. We want to live out what you teach us, please help us do that Father. In Jesus’ name. Amen

~ Love Notes ~

During my devotional time I have been writing down what I think God is saying to me each day and this has been so powerful. I tailor each sheet of paper like Jesus is personally writing me love notes. For example, I enjoy opening up the Jesus Calling Devotion and re writing what the author, Sarah Young has wrote just so I can observe the message from God’s eyes. She writes from God’s perspective but I like tailoring mine to me personally from God. Each day is so fun and I get so eager to see what God says to me. I write each day from a passionate perspective and let God sign the letter.

This way of writing is just so very personal and I am filled with so much joy. I feel absolutely amazing knowing that God is speaking directly to me. I encourage you to try it if you have not already.

Ladies, I believe God is teaching me to not leave his presence for the things and people in this world for NOTHING. When I sit and write from this perspective each day I believe he is building my faith and trust in him. He wants me firmly planted in his presence daily storing up his love notes in my heart. This intimate relationship is what he desires.

Ladies, God teaches us so much each day but sometimes we choose to focus on what this world has to offer instead of what he is offering. We leave him. Imagine him with his arms stretched out trying to reach for us only to get rejected because this world looks better than he does. God wants to be at the very center of our life but how can he if we keep leaving him for the things of this world (jobs, spouses, friends, status, or money). When we choose to trust God more than anything or anyone in this world we show him that he is our true dependence and our life makes sense. If we lose the lifeline we have in Jesus that is because we decided to shift gears from his presence.   

Sisters, if you stay close to the Lord and purposely focus on who he is and everything he is all about than the things of this world no longer matter. I mean you no longer care to have the best job making six figures or drive thee best car with the finest husband on your arm. What you start desiring is looking more like Jesus.

Sit down each day and let him write on the walls of your heart. He wants nothing but the best for you and wants to show you some things. He wants to prep you for so much. When all hell breaks loose in your life God wants you to keep your eyes on him, to stay with him. Find yourself so lost in all that God is that all you have time for is the love he is injecting into you from the love notes you write.  Grow, Stretch, Press, Stand, Trust, Believe………Don’t leave, stay with the Lord. You are safe there!

In Christ,

Monique Smith

 

Prayer Starter:
Lord, teach us to never leave your side. Teach us to stretch our faith and to walk hand in hand with you, never letting go. Nothing in this world can fill us, no job, no spouse, and no amount of money NOTHING. You, Lord are the only dependence I need. Help me to make choices that are of you and not of this world. In the name of Jesus’. Amen

~ Make Room for Forgiveness ~

I posted a picture on my Instagram account about blame last week or so and that made me want to further elaborate here on a blog post about some things. 

I mentioned in previous posts that I was abused sexually as a child by people I trusted. Many know when someone is abused mentally or physically this creates a hard wall around their heart as they grow up. They grow up with trust issues and try to protect themselves at all costs because they did not get protection as a child. Some cases may vary, but in my opinion, usually individuals with traumatic experience like that have deep pain and need only a love that can come from Jesus to properly heal.

Because of this and much dysfunction in my home as a child I blamed my parents for everything and not really the individuals who hurt me. Furthermore, because I had a child young I especially pointed the finger at my parents because I just knew it was their entire fault that I had sex young. I never addressed my pain from childhood until later in life but by that time I hurt people along with way. Friends, it did not take until I understood the love of Jesus and the salvation he freely gave me to understand that NO one was to blame. It was just the life I had along with decisions I made. I was responsible for my decisions after the abuse and especially when I became of age, I could no longer use the excuse “I was abused” as a reason to act a certain way. Yes, it hurt and yes it was unfortunate but God had a plan even then. My pain was not in vain. Did God just let this happen to me, abused young? No, there are people who make reckless decisions and take others down with them who are innocent, and this is not God’s fault, that is their decision. Hurt people hurt people point blank (fabulous book by the way by Sandra D. Wilson). They are so consumed with pain that they inadvertently hurt others who try and love them because they do not understand love and all it comes with. They become suspicious of the loving and kind people.

All these things did not make any sense to me at all until I found a relationship with Jesus. Many probably judged me and said “oh now she is Christian and religious”. But until I surrendered my way of doing things and fully let Jesus wash me clean with his blood I was in misery. After Jesus, what people thought of me did not matter all that mattered was his will for me and me trying to love others with his love. My life started to make sense and I was growing. Before knowing Christ personally I created just a selfish, very emotional horrible way of coping with life and lived in it like it did not stink. 

Today, I want nothing but the best for the people and any others who I felt “hurt” me as a child. I also learned to forgive my parents years ago for not being what I thought they "should" have been for me. 

It is my belief that only parents or others can teach or give what they have themselves so why should I expect them to give me what they do not have? I personally do not think that is fair and it creates unnecessary pain. If they do not know love for example how can they give it? Goes the same for any other characteristics like forgiveness or patience etc…….I have learned to lower my expectations tremendously with people especially family. I let go of what I have no control over and work on my “love walk” and the decisions I make. Am I perfect? Heck no!!! I fall short daily, every second. But I have a Savior who loves me and I know will set me back on track every second of the day if I surrender and trust him. I will never stop growing. I will never stop serving my heavenly Father and I will never go back to who I was.

IF today you are struggling with forgiveness or letting go of something I encourage you to pray and give it all to the Lord. Leave it at the cross and do not look back. Let Jesus work to heal your precious heart. Giving God your pain will help you move past all the pain and hurt. You have to decide to do that though. Be blessed friends. 

In Christ,

Monique Smith

Prayer Starter:

Christ Jesus, we want to be blameless and holy just like you. But we can’t do it without your help. Please go with us today and show us the way. Help us to forgive and let go. Fill us with your ways and peace. Be with us in every decision we have to make today. Help us, dear Jesus. Amen

~ Made for More ~

I was made for more. This was ringing in my ear last night before bed. I could not sleep because all I could think about was how “I was made for more”. We all were. God created each and every one of us with such great purpose. This purpose is hidden so deep in us that only Christ can help us unlock it. There was always this void in my life when I was younger and even growing into a woman. Something was missing. Until I got older and started to have a true relationship with Christ is when I understood that “something” was him. I desired a relationship with Christ and I did not even know it. That is how amazing God is. He makes us with a void only he can fill. No job, husband, child or material thing can fill us like Christ can. He takes our damaged, hurt and selfish self and transforms us to the loving, selfless, and kind person we were meant to be in him. He takes our indescribable pain, the unknown of our future, the impossible circumstance and injects hope into the dark dry places of our hearts. He turns it all around for our good. Jesus loves us so much and desires us to trust and believe in all that he is. He wants us to take him along throughout our lives and remember that he is our biggest cheerleader. He never wants us to fail. He wants us to live in the purpose that he created us for.

Many do not know what their “purpose” is. They search and search and often beg God to reveal it to them. Many, myself included think they hear from God when it fact it is not God who speaks to them but themselves who leads them astray. Ladies, purpose is found in the little. It is found in washing dishes sometimes, in being a mother, a friend, employee or wife. Purpose is going to work each day and being a light to your co-workers. There are those who are called to preach, teach, coach, or encourage. Those with the spiritual gifts God have given them, to glorify his kingdom. You will know you are living in your purpose when that purpose is your passion, glorifies God, helps others, aligns with scripture and you maybe get paid as a bonus for working in it. You know, not just the “never have to work a day in your life because you get paid to do what you love” kind of purpose. That type of job is wonderful, to get paid doing what you love to do is amazing. I am not saying that that type of purpose is not possible. I am speaking of the spiritual purpose that you and I were made for. The kind of purpose that keeps you awake at night, the one that makes you feel alive, ready, encouraged, hopeful just thriving with contentment. The one that you know God is well pleased with.

Today, if you are struggling with anything remember God is bigger. He is able and he is ready to work in your life. If you would just loosen your grips and move some you can give him a chance to be God. Worry less pray more (Matthew 6:34, Luke 12:25, John 14:27, & Psalm 55:22). It is not just some cute quote. It is the truth that is written in the word of God. Trust him at his word ladies. Be more. Let’s grow!

In Christ,

Monique Smith

 Prayer Starter:

 Lord, today I will not waver, move or give in to defeat. I will stand in faith and I will take you at your word. I will praise your name and keep my mouth from speaking negativity. You are my protector, my provider, my way maker. You are my light in this dark world or circumstance and I trust you. I believe that what you want to give to me is good and that you are right by my side today. I find my hope and peace in you. I thank you for your word and I thank you for this new day filled with your grace and mercy. In Jesus’ name. Amen

~ Negative Thoughts ~

My mind is a battlefield as Joyce Meyer says, in her most powerful book to date: Battlefield of the Mind. I was reading that I need to learn how to control the negative thoughts I let run around rampant in my mind. I need to immediately gather all those little tyrants, tie them all up, use the rope of God to secure them and send them free falling down to the fiery pit of hell FOR GOOD. Those thoughts want to harm me. They want to run, dance and play ring around the rosey with me and when I say no they will try to push me around like a school yard bully until I give in to them. I need to understand that they are the opposite of the cute little yellow minions I have seen on the movie, Despicable me. They are doing the dirty work of a real ugly sly snake in the grass who would love nothing more than to see me in severe doubt and confusion until I go crazy. Reading Joyce’s book motivates me to think of my negative thoughts as little soul sucking minions. I need to guard the entrance of my mind like a soldier would do at the fore front of a battle.  

I believe when you are trying to do work for the Lord that is when the enemy’s attack just seems so severe. This is exactly the time when we as believers should be speaking the word of God against those attacks. But let’s face it there will be times we are not successful and we give in to the little minions and we start to play with them.

God says in Ephesians 6:10-12, we are to be strong in Him. Put on his full armor so that we can fight against the devil’s evil tricks because our fight is not against people on this earth but against the rulers and authorities and powers of this world’s darkness: SATAN.  

Today, if you are doubtful just confused about life, your purpose, your past, your present or whatever negative thoughts that is trying to suck the joy out of you.  I encourage you to get your lasso and gather all those tyrants together and send them packing. Ladies, we are too valuable to the kingdom of God to go out like that. Pick up your sword and fight. Don’t waver. Don’t entertain those thoughts; they are not of the Lord. I pray in the name of Jesus all strongholds that are not of the Lord be broken now by the blood of Jesus. We are victorious in Christ. I stand with you as I have played with those little tyrants recently myself. You are not alone. Together we will grow and continue to live an abundant life daily just as Christ wants us to have.

In Christ,

Monique Smith

 

Prayer Starter:

Father, I thank you that you protect us from the tricks of the enemy. That although it may not feel like it, right in the midst of chaos you come rushing in like a knight in shining armor shielding us with your saving grace and love. Help me to recognize the traps, tricks and tyrants of the enemy. May I use your full armor to combat and win the battle that goes on in my mind every second of the day. Thank you in advance for working everything out for my good. I stand ready. Amen

~ Faithful With the Little ~

Hello my sweet friends. It has been awhile. Many blessings and peace to you as we spend some time together. J

I started a new job with a new organization this past week and boy has it been an experience to date. I remember just weeks prior praying to God to get me back into the workforce again and he did. He blessed me with a job making more than I have ever made in my career. Well, in my typical fashion the complaining started. I support the HR functions in two different facilities and needless to say the travel started to weigh on me and I was only one week in. I started to complain to God, I felt this spirit of frustration and felt confused about working again. Mind you I do need to work hello I have bills to pay need I say more. So here I am in my ugly ungrateful attitude uncomfortable with the job I asked God for (what in the world, who does this?). I missed my couch, my hours of bible study, my morning coffee at my home with my cat. I wanted to quit because I wanted to start full-time ministry in Christian counseling or coaching or get a job in human services (as God silently chuckles).

BUT of course God had to intervene on his hot mess of a daughter. As I was talking to my husband last night, about my confusion he offered his encouragement and I sought the word. I prayed asking God to rid me of this ugly spirit and to show me what I needed to do. I woke this morning out of my sleep and I heard “if you can be faithful in the little you will be faithful in much”. I got out of bed and I heard it again. I brushed my teeth showered and there it was again. So I ask God "please help me to understand how this applies now". I picked up my phone and went to read in Psalms as I usually do for comfort. Psalm 37:3-4 says “trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart”. I take out a book of scriptures I purchased at a local grocery store called “God’s promises for everyday” I looked up scriptures on pleasing God in the table of contents. I open up to Colossians 1: 11 which says “his glorious power will make you patient and strong enough to endure anything, and you will be truly happy”. I thanked the Lord for his guidance and start getting dressed. As I go upstairs, I hear “if you can be faithful in the little you will be faithful with much” AGAIN and I say it over and over and then it hit me.

I was called to encourage women in Christ and use my personal testimony to help them in their walks with the Lord. So how can I do that if I cannot practice what I preach? If I am not acting like I am grateful for the job God gave me, you know the one I prayed for? How can I be God’s faithful servant in helping his precious daughters if I am complaining all the time and cannot get myself in order? He says “Monique don’t you give up. I need you to be faithful in the tasks in front of you (your new job, being a wife, finishing school etc) practice being patient and in my timing, when I think you are ready and when I can trust you with more, I will give you the desires of your heart. In the meantime, keep working as if you are working for me. Wow…..just wow. I will have you know this time I was not my typical rebellious self and I said “Yes, Lord”. J

 Ladies, I was in awe and just smiled and asked for forgiveness for being such a brat and thinking I can handle what I was going through in my own strength. I ran upstairs and told my husband immediately and he tells me “God will not give you more than you can bear, this is one of those things you are given and it all will make you stronger”. What a sweetheart right? God even uses him to speak to me. What an awesome Father we serve! I totally don't deserve it but God loves me despite me being nutzo.

So, after I pick my mouth up from the ground I drive to work and praise Jesus the whole way. I decided to silent all the confusion, doubt and fear I had in worship. I gave it all to God and purposely pursued his peace, because where peace lives so does Jesus. God cannot work in things that are not of him. I cannot get what I want all the time and I need to have a better attitude when I am uncomfortable. I had to change my perspective and I needed a “focus” reminder. My focus is to work unto the Lord like I had always told myself in whatever season I am in. God had no problem being God of the universe to his crazy daughter. This is a perfect example of what happens when you put God on the back burner while you run around like a chicken without a head trying to do things by yourself.  Monique <----guilty.

Ladies, I encourage you to stop, pause and be still. If you have a major decision to make, take it to the Lord and if it does not require immediate action, just wait on God. If you feel some kind of way, take those emotions to the Lord. As you wait, rejoice and trust God at his word. If you are feeling lost and confused like I was do not rely on your emotions or your own strength, seek the word and align it with your thoughts. Do not try and handle this life on your own or you will find rather quickly you will become VERY frustrated and start to feel like throwing in the towel. God is here for us and he cares about every detail of our lives big or small. What he is waiting for is for us to move out of the way and let him work. While he is working he wants us to go about life doing well (being content, being patient, loving people, being kind and gentle, practice forgiving, staying faithful in serving etc.) for his name sake. Let’s go ladies, together we will be faithful in the little so we can be faithful in the big (Luke 16:10) assignments God will give us. May you rest in his presence.

In Christ,

Monique Smith

 Prayer Starter:

Father, thank you for loving us back to life, for guiding us and keeping us focused. It is my desire to please you and I am so sorry that I trust myself more than I do in you sometimes. Help me with changing this. I love you and I am grateful for you and the many blessings you provide day in and out. May I be faithful in all the little tasks and trials that come my way so that you can trust me with more. I wish to hear “well done, good and faithful servant” as your word says and live a life pleasing you. Father, please search my heart and rid me of all that is not of you in the name of Jesus. Amen